My boyfriend passed away in January. I now have to start my life over. I have lived in Hoboken for close to 10yrs. I just bought a condo in town this past April. I rent it out. I am past 40. I am looking for a quiet, casual, informal and upscale place to hang out until I'm again equipped to deal with the Hoboken scene. It's hard for right now to be around happy couples and beautiful people. Thanks! Dawn.