The Hoboken Cafe 

sometimes dating in general sucks, I don't think it is limited to just Hoboken. It is always hard to see the one you were with, with someone else (especially canoodling). It will get better, just give it time.(yea, I know: meaningless statement when you feel like your heart has been ripped to shreds).

Go out, have fun with your girlfriends, either in Hoboken or someplace else...