The Hoboken Cafe 

I just moved to Hoboken and am 40 something, I seem to find not shortage of places for 20 something women, but where in the heck do the folks a little older go here?

PS - Not interested in anything sleezy, just good spots to meet folks a little closer my age?

PPS - This can be bars, nightclubs, or just clubs of vairous activities, whatever.

Any suggestions welcome.

Thanks!