The Hoboken Cafe Message Baord Main Navigation

General Discussion

General discussion board for no specific topic
View Post# Switch Board
The Hoboken Cafe Message Baord Main Navigation

re: Why Do Some Women Hate Pornography?

posted at 1/4/2002 12:19 AM - (There are 17 messages in This Topic)
ID# 18625
This is a reply to: 18611
I don't mean this to be an attack on you, writergirl72, but why do you suppose that SOME women wouldn't wanna sit next to their boyfriends and watch porn with them? In fact, if they can get over the fact that most of the women in porn have really large breasts by a) thinking about the fact that 99% of them are fake and b) If they have enough confidence in their looks to assume that their boyfriends would still want them even after looking at some chick with giant silicon implants, then they shouldn't really have anything to worry about. In fact, I know plenty of couples who watch porn together and enjoy it and honestly, I'm not telling anyone what to do here, but if you're comfortable with your sexuality and with your looks (or with at least your ability to attract your boyfriend/husband/whatever), then you shouldn't have a problem with it (or at the very least with other people watching it for their own pleasure).

Matt

writergirl72 said on 1/3/2002 9:45 PM

>That was a good response.
>
>Seriously, it could certainly make a woman feel threatened. Who wants to sit next to their boyfriend drooling over big-breasted women and feeling like they don't measure up? There's a feeling that one's boyfriend/husband needs to stare at other women, it's because they're not satisfied with what they have. I'll bet if you came into your apt. and caught your girlfriend watching pictures of men with giant johnsons moving across a screen -- no plot, no real purpose, just attractive men doing things with their schwanzen -- you might feel a little intimidated.
>
>