The Hoboken Cafe 

does anybody have any advice/thoughts about how you balance several different groups of friends? i have run into this problem recently in that i have been invited to different events on the same day by different groups. the unwritten rule is if you really are our friend, you'll show up here. it is getting frustrating and sometimes makes me feel like i am back in highschool. i want to spend time with my friends, but i don't want to feel like i'm being forced to choose who i like better or more.