Anybody read it lately.
The control drama thing is very interesting. I have read books on these issues before. I have a problem relating to the control drama thing am wondering if anyone has had a problem like this. Or can help me solve mine.
If you have a queasy stomach don't read any further.
I work in close proximity to a women. This women had the most unbelievable disgusting personal noises.
She has sinuses and has this unbelievable phlegmy cough. When she coughs up the phlegm then she inhales it back in loudly. Like a child sniffing magnified by 100. You can actually hear it going back down her throat which of course causes more phlegmy coughs. (SSSSSSSSNNNNNNNNNIIIIIIFFFFF) (HHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAACCCCCCKKKK)
She chews her fingers and eats the skin off her cuticles with sucking noises (PSSTSFSSSCH)
She sucks her teeth (FFFFFSSSSSSSED)when eating and eats at her desk regularly.
I brought in a boom box to play music when the snorting, hacking, phlegm sucking and flesh eating occur. I put a huge plant in front of me so I can't see her eating her fingers and it will block some of the coughing (no tissue or hand just phlegmy cough... pretty much right at me).
This brings me to my problem. What possible control drama can this be? What lesson can I learn from this? I realize she is probably a poor me type or why would anyone make so many noises if they didn't desparately want attention. It is in all my power sometimes not to shout "WOULD YOU STOP ALREADY".
Patience, tolerance all qualities I need to work on are tested daily for the last 5 years.
I bring it up here because I just read the control drama thing and that makes sense. How then do I accept the noises as her attempt to draw attention to herself. How do I send her love and energy so she won't need to "sound" off.
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