holobon,
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- one view is that the person I am now is not 'independent' of the person I might have been 10 years ago or 20 years ago
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- nor of the person I may be 10 years from now
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- one view of "attachments" is that they have to do with how we "grasp" at some things or 'reject' other things (aversion)
- one Key to all this seems to be to be able to learn Mindful balance so that as we enter the Bardo upon passing the things (including relationships) to which we were "attached" by our grasping or aversion do not lead us back into another incarnation
- for Grasping and Aversion generate beaucoups of Karma that will have to be dealt with during this or a later lifetime
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Reiki all around,
all blessings,
Firekeeper