Namaste all!
I wanted to raise the point that detachment does not mean not loving and caring. Sometimes people get confused about that.
Bhagavatgeetha, the Hindu epic quotes: "Karmanye Vadhikaraste Ma phaleshu Kadachana..." meaning do your duty without getting attached to the results.
So if we have family, we are expected to love and care, but no need to get attached.
Mal