Hi Mal
What is up with being labeled "laid back"? (LOL)
I take the same attitude as you do i.e. get over it it isn't important.
Some people just don't seem to be happy unless they have something to moan about (with us Brits it's the weather LOL)
Now we have a choice to make. We either get caught up in it all or we don't. By saying that you don't want to be caught up in the others person negitivity, all you are doing is stating where you stand on the issue. Good for you.
Namaste
Rob
Friendship with oneself is all-important, because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world.
Eleanor Roosevelt