Otoharo!
Sakti-rising, your questions take a lifetime of answering. This will be boring to most readers, I have said it so many times.
When humans evolve to their highest possible, they are called "finaliters" in Urantia, and in the Conversations with God series, they are called HEB's (Highly Evolved Beings.) These humans are so evolved they are not regular humans anymore. Uranta says they are spirit beings.
These HEB's live in their own world. Eventually they seek a job to do. In companies of about a thousand, they volunteer to go to a planet of primative humans, to hold the energy of spirit for them.
That happened here on earth. A company came 120,000 years ago. They could not allow humans to see them, or know that they were here, not in any way. Eventually, the glaciers were so heavy, they pushed up land in the Pacific. the HEB's saw that humans did not know that this land was there and would have had no way of reaching it even if they did. The HEB's saw an opportunity to live in communities. So they did. prior to that they were scattered about in earth. This land they called Chulan. Legend has called it Lemuria.
The Atlantians were humans technologically advanced but who did not know they were Divine. They settled on an island in the Atlantic. Eventually, some scientists there tried to capture an asteroid and cause it to orbit earth. Instead, the asteroid followed their lazar beam and distroyed Atlantis and caused the sinking of Chulan. Since then, HEB's have not lived in communities. They are still here. Some have incarnated from time to time to assist humans.
Xaris is one of these HEB's. She was the grandmother of the people at the time of the blow-up. I and my soulmate were one of these HEB's. Xaris was our very dear friend and still is. She at one time was channeled by a man who came to Longview where I live and gave a program that I attended. I got acquainted with her. I had clients and students at the time. She offered to meet with my group sometime. So I scheduled her and the group were enamored with her and asked her to come every month. She did for a year or so. Each time, after the group was over, she stayed and was available to me privately. (I did not realize that she had set this up in order to help me to heal things that I did not even know needed healing!)
Now Xaris stays with my soulmate. So I have access to her but only when I am out of my head. She can not help someone's head!
That is who Xaris is.
Obviously, my body is not 120,000 years old. So I have had to have many bodies since coming here. re-incarnation is simply dropping the old body and taking a new one.
finaltiy