finality,
Hi,
Well, in some respects I am not sure it makes much difference though I do assume you are only the 'messenger' and so I try not to shoot messengers although sometimes the very nature of being a mesenger puts one in the line of fire (an occupational hazzard for messengers I dare say).
However, as always, I do hold each person responsible for how they may react. So, to this extent messages are only distrubing becasue we react to them in that manner. Thus, theoretically, any message might be interpretted as disturbing (or otherwise) by anyone at any given time.
Cheers (if one shifts just slightly perhaps one will not get hit),
:)
RC