Holly,
One thing I forgot...dont ask what else can go wrong...I have found that the question is usually answered. Instead focus on things going right, even if hard to imagine. Like attracts like....people around you may think you are nuts when you do that or may not want to hear it ( when people are in pain they may see an attempt to connect to a more positive frame of mind as insincerity & lack of respect for their pain) so you can keep it to yourself..but it does work!!
peace & love,
holobon
