Hello,
Great question. The technique that I have tried that has gotten the best results for me is to send Reiki to my need for a relationship. Also, during self treatments and meditation, asking for wisdom and enlightenment to learn to come to a place of peace.
You may not LOVE the results I got (I struggle myself), but I have come to a state of willingness to meet life on lifes terms with this. I have come to appreciate the frequency and depth of my friendships, the opportunities to bring love to a person, place or relationship, and I'm more willing to be more fully with myself. I have more of a sense of being complete within myself.
MY wish would have been for a happy, hot, relationship. The Universe has other plans.
You know what they say, "If you want to make the gods laugh, tell them your plans."
Nameste,
Joyce Klima