Hello all,
Thank you all for your wonderful insight. I went to my reiki master on Tuesday and we did a reading and we did some work about this coworker.
Basically my feelings of resentment toward her are because she is coddled by upper management and that smacks against everything I think is fair and just.
Further, the reason that she and I clash is that I refuse to coddle her and so she doesn't know how to react to that or to me and so we have friction.
So, while this doesn't solve the immediate issue of my prickly co-worker.. with some insight and your recommendations we'll make it.
Thanks!