Hello Eire, *hugs**
Bless you. I know that this is a tough situation but is it possible that you are resisting so much her negativity that you are actually causing your own headache?
Accepting someone where they are takes patience and lots of self love. Because her ways that your resisting will stimulate the areas within yourself that you have little self love and patience.
Try seeing if when you are around her you tense up. Is your whole body on alert?
Trying thinking of her like an ocean wave that is just flowing through you. Remember also that you are Nothing but Love and nothing unlike itself will penetrate the core of who you are.. When this rememberance you will be in more of a receptive state to receive what she is giving so you can transmute this negativity at its core.
I hope this makes sense,,
Loving you and blessing you always,
Jahnavi
