Hello holobon,
Yep, :-))
I recently finally bought the book after getting really tired of hearing people recommend it (I have real issues w/one of the authors :-)) Have read less than a quarter of it so far but seems that a lot of it is rehashed/rephrased mumbo jumbo, double speak. I did really go 'what the ?? (expletive deleted :-)) right off the bat when Petter said on the first page "Dependence is the first step toward love" I don't care what kind of love anyone is talking about, unless it is an unhealthy sort, dependence definitely is Not the first step towards it. :-))
Anyway, take it all with a grain of salt but do not swallow (whole at least :-))
hugs
Walk in beauty,
Rebecca
