Do allow me to rephrase that.
While speaking with a mentor in the same group I was made aware that someone else had also reported feeling that he had acted inappropriately.
My reaction is mine alone and I alone am responsible for it.
But I cannot excuse the actions of people who behave in a slimy manner by blaming my reaction to them, either. I guess I have been struggling with the question, does it have more to do with me, or more to do with him? And that's why I haven't gone ahead and confronted him. The fact that someone else also brought the subject up is leading me to believe that it's not just me.
I will proceed with caution.
Peace and thanks.