Otoharo!
The following is all I have picked up about these children. All children coming in do not have an ego. That is a blessing. They are quite active. Let them be in this respect. Ask them for input in everything. Pay attention to everything they say. Do not expect instant obedience. It takes time to process. Let them have this time.
You may already be doing all these things. Conflagration may have more input for you.
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