lk,
Hi,
Things are, moment to moment, as they unfold. To say this is how they are always supposed to be is, it seems to me, a leap of "logic" I do not not follow. The position sounds to be one of fatalism and predestination. However, since we can never know with absolute certainty, moment to moment, what will unfold, to assert that the way things unfolded is as they are supposed to have unfolded is really just hindsight (which is actually never 20-20).
:)
Cheers,
RC