Namaste Helen
thanks for the input. I think I have been rather childish in my expecations of the pendulum. You know the kind of thing.... will so and so love me or will I do such and such. All purely selfish. I have had definate yes or no's though and find that if I try to stop analysing or second guessing then the flow is smoother. I am not as brave as you or as well supported in my ventures, so practising anything like that at home is a bit sticky. However, I am going to look into it further and have since got a pendulum which I think 'talks' to me. Initially I grabbed the first one when I decided that I was going to do this stuff. Good luck with your endeavours! Keep us posted.
love light and laughter
Sally xx