Goldenisis,
Why not you?
Still if you seem to be caught in a pattern, maybe not asking why, or why not...but what do I have to learn from this. What am I doing to cause it, or what can I do to change it...are all good questions.
And there is another lesson here, as well. What do I have to forgive in others and myself, to let the pain go.
She is deciding to spend Christmas alone when there are people who want her. Is there any relationship to the amount of pain, and the closer it gets to Christmas each year? (I will probably get blasted on that assumption!)
This is about Pepi, but there are many others out there for whom this time of year is extrememly painful...(yes there is a corolation) And, excuse me, but there are also some people who have a temper and don't mind expressing it at the drop of the hat, even on this board.
Just my .02 worth.
Happy Holidays,
Priestess
