Thank you Kimberlee.
I look at him everyday and things pop back that he has said and done, but I realize that he has been through a lot and he had reasons for doing things. They weren't good reasons, but in his mind, they were truth for the moment. He's learning and trying, and I can't cut him down for that. My biggest struggle in life has been forgiveness and it's something I need to learn. I think he'll help me with that. I just have to keep reminding me that stuff he said or did was due to things he thought were truths at that moment, not now.
Meg