FK,
>- to say we can see our projections in others requires, first, that one is able to be aware of the process of projection and second be able to sort out projections from the other's Personna, and then still be mindful enough and insightful to have a handle on what aspects of ourselves are being projected at any Moment.
>- just as hindsight is not 20\20, mirrors do lie (or perhaps we lie to ourselves as we gaze at the mirror).
I agree with what you say here. I think it is important to take into consideration both inner projection and another's Personna.
Lie to ourselves? I think we just have a mis-perception of the truth of who we are, and sometimes can't see past who we are not. Just as the mirror is a reflector for the body, other's are a reflector for the mind.
Cheers!
Kimberlee