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re: Not so healed

posted at 11/22/2005 1:01 PM - (There are 35 messages in This Topic)
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Hi Everyone,

I just want to say I know what it is like to be hurt in this way. Abuse is very hard to deal with. It steals our innocence and trust, joy. I would like to say though that trauma/abuse NEVER makes us a better person. Thats victim mentality.

I am who I am in spite of abuse/trauma/adversity, not because of it. To me it feels like your very angry, and you want to express it. Anger is not a bad thing. We should be angry when someone hurts us, they do not have that right. I know the betrayal, how much it can rob you of so many things in your life.

Sending buckets of love and light your way.