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If you had a boyfriend or girlfriend who you really liked but they were not ready to be physical-sexual with you, how long would you wait?

Well, why would the person be in a relationship if they were not ready for some physical action, not necessarily intercourse?

not intercourse? you mean like a B.J.

OWWWW Pam just slapped me in the back of the head.

marcus_sparticus said on 6/12/2002 11:24 PM

>not intercourse? you mean like a B.J.
>

So your answer is that you would not wait at all because your not ready yet for this type of relationship.

P.S So Josh your still out there doing exactly what I've been trying to explain to other people in different posts.
I see your still into: Oh she's ok that girls not bad and then wham bam thank you ma'am....done, next, time to move on!

I have to say that I can't blame you, if I were a guy I'd do that too but since I'm not a guy I will always say
waiting is best. Gotta live by it.

P.S.S - M.Sparticus be quiet - keep your testosterone in your pants please and your brain out of the gutter..men i swear sometimes your brains are all in your pants. Behave yourself Sparticus

me, if it was important enough or I cared about a girl enough, I'd wait as long as I had to I s'pose. if it's someone you don't care much for and it aint happnin' then I guess the point is moot and you wouldn't care if you're not getting any.

If I care for her that much, as long as it takes. If I did not care for that much, it is not worth it.

Thank you Paul & Jerry, you guys maybe can understand what I mean! We're finally getting to the meat of things around here.

So - if you really like her, care about her, if the two of you click, if she feels the same about you, really likes you, trusts you, if all is good then you guys are answering
that you would wait.

In my last serious relationship, we waited for almost THREE MONTHS b4 having sex! I think it was more him b/c he was a Divorce' and wanted to make sure it was right.

We fell in love, met the families, and started talking marriage, but needless to say.....I started to notice things that just weren't going to work for me and had to end it.

I think what ever your reasons were that you did the right thing, and you handled your self well by getting to know him first. It didn't work out but you did the right thing.

My boyfriend waited 7 months 10 days to be exact.

Thanks :)

Well, if it leads up to that, then yes I would wait. No sense in ruining a possibly good thing if I can find the one that clicks or has the right chemistry. If you force someone into a situation they feel uncomfortable with then you are already wrecking a relationship.

I would wait 2 mins and then go right in

What? What if she said "NO"?