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posted at 1/1/2003 8:09 PM
ID# 41652
Taken from msn.com to help with their lose weight/exercise more resolutions for the new year...

"I don't think exercise will ever be an 'easy-come' habit for me," says one WeightWatchers.com Community user. "More like a necessary evil. Some days I like it, some days I hate it but I feel so much better because of it. That's what keeps me going."

Sound familiar? All but the part about keeping it going, perhaps? For many, exercise has a perpetual position at the bottom of the to-do list, occasionally rising to the top for two-or-three-day bouts of good will. You know you have to do it. You know it would help you lose weight faster. You know you need it for good health.


But, at the risk of sounding like a whining four year old, you just don't like it. Don't worry. We can help.

Forget the Myths
First of all, these common misconceptions about exercise may be what are holding you back:

Myth # 1. Exercise is never fun.
Not only can exercise be fun (do you hate playing catch with your kids? walking through the woods?), it can help fill gaps in your life.

For example, "if you're around people all day long, you can choose an exercise that allows you some alone time," says Robyn Stuhr, exercise physiologist with the Women's Sports Medicine Center at the Hospital for Special Surgery in New York City. If you sit in front of a computer, maybe exercise can be a social thing for you. If you never see your husband, exercise with him.

Find something that works for you on a personal level, too, and that will make exercise more fun. Plus, you'll be more likely to do it if you look forward to it.

Myth # 2. Exercise is a major disruption.
"The bottom line is that exercise, unlike diet, is something you have to make yourself do," says Stuhr. "Everybody has to eat every day, but you have to purposely set aside time to work out. And its very easy to let other things get in the way."

But there's a bonus to working out that you won't notice until you do it. When you exercise, you get more energy. And when you stop (like many of us yo-yoers do), your energy level starts to drop, so it's even harder to jump back in. Sticking with it helps, even if that causes scheduling problems in the short term.

Make It a Habit
Making anything a habit from exercise to eating right is a matter of having enough "want power," says Palma Posillico, general manager of training and development for Weight Watchers International. "Life gets in the way, so unless you do something proactively, it's very easy to make excuses."

But there is a new tool from Weight Watchers Tools for Living that can help: It's called Switching, and it can specifically help you replace bad habits (in this case, being sedentary) with good ones.


First identify the habit you want to change. Maybe you want to stop being a couch potato.
Picture yourself involved in the negative habit; make the image as unattractive as you can.
Then, in the lower-right-hand corner of your mind, put a picture of the new you, the way that you would rather be. Make it a bright, colorful picture of you walking, for example. (It works sort of like a picture-in-a-picture TV screen.)
Make the ugly one big and bright and the good one small and dark, then switch them. Then switch five times more. Do it really fast, and clear the screen after each switch.

Try it! And try these other tricks for making exercise a habit, too

Understand that you have to start slowly, says Stuhr. An hour-long power aerobics class on your first day will only discourage you, maybe hurt you, and send you back to square one.

Find an exercise buddy. A workout partner can be immeasurably helpful, because you have a responsibility to your friend not to talk yourself out of exercising. Make sure you choose a buddy who's in about the same shape as you, though.

Pick an exercise you like, then commit yourself to trying it consistently for at least three months. If you still think you hate it after that amount of time, give yourself permission to say, okay, this isn't working. Then pick something different and repeat.

re: Exercise...

posted at 1/1/2003 8:45 PM
ID# 41654
This is a reply to: 41652

i had put up a post for anyopne looking for a workout buddy...especially females. get in touch if you want to keep motivated by goingto the gym with a partner.
ali

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posted at 1/2/2003 11:16 PM
ID# 41742
This is a reply to: 41654
Yeah folks.... but actually, hudsongrl, you stated before only females. I remember there were plenty of guys that wanted to workout and you posted males not preferred. I assume this is still the case.

Anyway, here is the part about workout buddies and why they can be so important (if you decided that you need not want to read the entire article

Find an exercise buddy. A workout partner can be immeasurably helpful, because you have a responsibility to your friend not to talk yourself out of exercising. Make sure you choose a buddy who's in about the same shape as you, though.

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posted at 1/3/2003 8:28 AM
ID# 41755
This is a reply to: 41742

i only said i prefer females cause i got some emails that sounded like the guys wanted to hit on me...and that's not why i'm looking for a workout buddy. not that girls couldn't hit on me... well, whatever, i still need a workout buddy or two. i'll take anyone serious about it.

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posted at 1/3/2003 10:11 AM
ID# 41760
This is a reply to: 41755
hudsongrl, you work out at NYSC, right? I could use a workout partner, but I work out at Empire. Any chance you'd want to switch? Empire's cheaper, but it doesn't offer any classes (which I never take anyway).

BTW, I'm female, very fit, I train HARD, and I don't hit on women :)

Denise

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posted at 1/6/2003 7:09 PM
ID# 42025
This is a reply to: 41760

i'm not as fit...i guess i could switch for a good partb\ner.

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posted at 1/6/2003 8:41 PM
ID# 42033
This is a reply to: 42025

If you want a good At Home video......Try Kiana(of ESPN2) Tom's Strength! video.

I cross-train on my treadmill and use my free weights. I'm trying to tighten up a bit for some Erotic & nude photos......and this workout whips me back into shape fast!

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posted at 1/6/2003 9:31 PM
ID# 42041
This is a reply to: 41755

Well, what do you look like?

I'm KIDDING........LOL

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posted at 1/7/2003 10:29 AM
ID# 42063
This is a reply to: 42025
Well, I don't mind working out with someone who's somewhat less fit (but not unfit), if they're looking to challenge themselves a bit.

If you want to check out Empire, you can get a free pass at their website at www.empirefitnessclubs.com. Its a much more basic club than NYSC. No classes, or massage rooms, or saunas (stuff I never ever used when I was a member of NYSC or Crunch). The weight training area is a bit of a sausage-fest, but that's not necessarily a bad thing ;)

D

Sausage fest?

posted at 1/7/2003 11:39 AM
ID# 42080
This is a reply to: 42063
While it’s true that the Imperial Weight Room is crawling with no neck guys (coincidentally all named Jason and all with the same haircut), I can assure the readers of this board that there are no sausages either lifting weights or talking on their cell phones downstairs on the bikes.


re: Sausage fest?

posted at 1/7/2003 12:16 PM
ID# 42084
This is a reply to: 42080
There are some times when I am the only female on the weight room floor. It's a strange feeling. Like I accidentally went to the Elks club or something. The cardio area is much more balanced.

Ladies, you GOTTA do the weights! If you don't do resistance training, you're only doing half of a workout. Weight training raises your metabolism so you lose weight AND keep it off.

re: Sausage fest?

posted at 1/7/2003 10:08 PM
ID# 42141
This is a reply to: 42084
Denise- Just give me 3 more wks. of training and I'll arm wrestle you....meet me at Liberty. Well, maybe 4wks. :)

re: Sausage fest?

posted at 1/8/2003 10:51 AM
ID# 42195
This is a reply to: 42141
HA! You're on, Christine!

:)

re: Sausage fest?

posted at 1/8/2003 7:16 PM
ID# 42244
This is a reply to: 42195
Actually, after I posted that, I realized that you're probably stronger than me..... but the next time I see you....I'll give it a try.

Arm wrestling challenge.......an Event?!

re: Sausage fest?

posted at 1/9/2003 10:01 AM
ID# 42305
This is a reply to: 42244
Winner buys the loser all the Guinness she can drink!

Truthfully, I don't know if I'm stronger than you. I'm pretty muscular, but that doesn't necessarily mean I'm strong. I have good muscle but lousy joints.

re: Sausage fest?

posted at 1/9/2003 10:28 AM
ID# 42310
This is a reply to: 42305
I got 20 on Denise

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posted at 1/9/2003 12:44 PM
ID# 42326
This is a reply to: 42305
Whoops, I meant that the loser buys the winner all the Guinness she can drink. 'Cause I do plan to win!

re: Sausage fest?

posted at 1/9/2003 1:39 PM
ID# 42331
This is a reply to: 42326
In that case, I got 40 on you!

re: Sausage fest?

posted at 1/9/2003 1:45 PM
ID# 42332
This is a reply to: 42331
In that case, YOU can buy the Guinness!

Who's bringing popcorn?

posted at 1/9/2003 2:13 PM
ID# 42339
This is a reply to: 42332
Heh heh. This is starting to shape up like a Celebrity Death Match - or at the very least a Paula Jones vs Tanya Harding type of exhibition match up.

Gotta start handicapping this.

re: Who's bringing popcorn?

posted at 1/9/2003 2:37 PM
ID# 42348
This is a reply to: 42339
LOL!

No it will NOT be a celebrity death match. It also will not involve jello or mud or bikinis (sorry guys). Personally, I'm only in it for the Guinness...

re: Sausage fest?

posted at 1/9/2003 5:43 PM
ID# 42370
This is a reply to: 42332
Noooooo - that defeats the whole purpose....however, I'll split my winnings with you

re: Sausage fest?

posted at 1/9/2003 7:44 PM
ID# 42391
This is a reply to: 42326

Too late, you all ready posted it the other way.....LOL

Amstel Light, for me....

re: Sausage fest?

posted at 1/9/2003 7:46 PM
ID# 42392
This is a reply to: 42332

Yeh, I like that idea better....and Clark- while you're at it....you can take care of my Amstel light, as well. Such a Gentleman :)

re: Who's bringing popcorn?

posted at 1/9/2003 7:47 PM
ID# 42393
This is a reply to: 42339
Lawndart- You can bring the popcorn.....and while you're at it--- Bring a Stand-in for me!!!