The New York Nexus Cafe 

I fron a hard rock band and have been changing what I wear from gig to gig. Rather than buy a whole lots of new stuff when I run out of what I have, I wanted to both ask who would be willing to lend me stuff and also to offer that person my stuff to borrow. Yup, barter.

Both women and cross-dressing men welcome, as long as we're the same size.

I am 5'9" 140 lbs, size 10 shoe [don't wear leather or suede manmade lookalikes fine]
If you're my size and want to know what I have, just ask.

To see the style I'm talking about, though I would consider other stuff if it works, see the band gig pics
http://www.exitzerorocks.com/photos/PICS/index.html