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hi yeah i am back and i gogt really really well for some weeks ago but again i met this person that made me extremely no exadurtation extremely sick again and now i wonder if i will get worse and go into the hell i went thorugh last year.

i am so convinced some people ahve evil demons or energi in them , that person is a nice person but he might have alot of demons or bad energy that really capture and steal almost i dear to say your soul

i am not being paranoid , i was well untill i met this person.. he always showes up when i get well , these individuals that seem to kill me totally seem to show up exactly after some sort of sucess

i need help! why cant god help me?!

Dear Neokoman,
Any negativity comes from within. Not from anyone person, place or thing. They may trigger some distress within. It's good you are aware of your distress. Become your true self and do not allow this negativity from within to become who you are. Be your authentic, wonderful self.
peace,
Prosperity

Nekomon,

There are, indeed, some Extremely toxic people out there, although I'm not sure I've ever run across any soul-stealers. I do my best to avoid them; when I can't, I use energetic shielding and get the hell away as soon as possible.

Bright blessings; hail Eris!
goldenisis

nekoman,

Hi,

The good news is that yes, there are energy suckers and polluters out and about and there are ways to deal with their influences. The bad news, I would offer, is that they may not be as frequent as you seem to suggest and this raises the liklihood of a certain amount of projection on your part.

Cheers,

RC

Otoharo!

Francisco Coll taught us how to deal with such situations. But I have to be in your physical preasence to do it. However, if you are interested, I will email you a methods Francisco taught for cleansing of self, others, and environment. God does help!

finality

Nekomon,

Hi. I don't claim to be some wise old sage, but there are a couple of things I wanted to share from my own experience.

There are many people in my own life that fit a similar description you are giving. But I have come to realize that external circumstances are actually reflections from within. ie. real life is on the inside of us, the physical world is simply the unfolding of it. Recognizing this, I feel, is very important for everyone but even more so when one is working in energy systems such as Reiki.

Once our energies no longer fit a particular "pattern" then our external situations (or at least our reactions to those situations) change. Keep up the Reiki, and don't stop!

aum shanti

Dear Nekomon,

There are very negative people out there. For whatever reason, they can be destructive to people around them, but they're not devils. They're just unpleasant people.

I think the solution is not to expect God to save you, but instead, to work on your own personal strength to stand up to such people. Perhaps praying for strength is a better idea than to expect Divine intervention.

How do you build up strength? You take responsibility for what you can do for yourself in this life and you convince yourself you are a worthy person deserving a good life and respect from people around you. You are, you know.

Blessings,
Roxy

I have noticed that, of all the negative people in the world, none of them ever seem to be me.

Given that I share a fairly small planet with billions of others, and given that Reiki compresses my perspective of space and time, that's a whole, er, big pile of protection that I would have to wrap myself in to avoid their negativity sticking to me. Kind of heavy, carrying around all that armor.

Breathe in the bad, let your center, heart, tandien, abdomen, bless it and transmute it, then breathe it out as good. Demanding discipline, but really no choice these days, is there?

I'll let you know if and when I get the hang of it myself.

Blessings,
Aronaya

hi my dear friends , specially hi and hugs to finality (i know her from other forums she is like my angel that seems to be there whenever i ask for such questions hehe)

well , my doctor who is a homeopat told me that i have such a weak energy field due to my beaten down soul trhough the years of trauma that anyone with any kind of strong or vibrant energy can most likely disturb me significantly and that i should just stay away and that protection might sometimes not protect me from these kind of people..

i have horrendously been rendered sick by a few people in my life i only encoutnered 3 of these , mostly they are nice people but my doc says they often take on "masks" in order to be able to come and get their lack of energy from you since you are so open they then go home refreshed and leave you exhasuted and possibly extremely ill because you need this energy way more then they do.

so fortunetly i have been able to be away from this person and i really do not know .. i just finished my reiki 2 (thank you thank you) and i have been doing se-hei-ki arround me when i go outside and i try ti vision some energy coming from god to me and energy from the earth up i mean i force visions these things in hope tha tit does something.

Beware its way more hars on people like me wiht mental illness then you people.. i really hate to say that the energy i or the sucking or vacume i feel from these invidviduals sometimes i dont even know who they are dont speak to them, coming into a room of only one of these can make me feel its EVIL i hate to say that word because i want to beleiven othing is evil in this world.

yes finality if you can email me at r_ktulu@hotmail.com i am also using msn with it.

hugs everyone.

Dear Nekomon,

During a very vulnerable time in my life, I would absorb other people's energy like a sponge. I can see how some peoples energy might make you sick.

I think the best idea, as goldenisis said, is shielding. Sit or stand quietly and give some time to envisioning an egg shaped field of white light around you. It may help.

Blessings,
Roxy

nekoman,

/*\ Namaste :-}}

- yes, shielding can be useful

- remember, though, that visualization is only one step in manifesting a shield

>:-}}

Reiki All Around,

All Blessings,

Firekeeper

If a giant comes over and steps on you, will your shield keep you safe?

Dear Prosperity,

Of course not. But what we are talking about is an energy technique designed to combat an energy problem.

Blessings,
Roxy

Otoharo!

Nekomon, I have chosen to give this here instead of email. In Inner Peace Movement, the angels backing the program gave this method to earthians, us, freely, no fees attached.

Cleansing Technique:

Stand, relaxed. Shake your wrists to flex your fingers. Repeat until all are very flexible.
Bring your hands up to your forehead. Touch the fingers, then swipe across your forehead.
Flex your wrists again. (eventually, your finger will click)
Bring your hands again to your forehead and this time bring them up and back down to the back of your neck.
Repeat these motions until you have chills running down your spine.

Do this cleansing technique often, like at least every hour. When we were in a retreat center, we gathered in circle or circles outside, sang some chipper songs cleansed before entering any building or beginning any class. We did it before washing the dishes. We did it before bedtime. We preceeded all activities during the day and evening with this cleansing.

The cleansing technique brings an organization to all your energy field, strengthens it, shines it. You will glow. Look in the mirror and see if you can see light!

finality

I have learned that we continue to attract troublesome people into our lives until we learn the lesson about ourselves . So keep looking at what these people are bringing up in you.
Peace,
Feather

If a giant steps on you and you become water, you will not be harmed.
Feather