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Is it possible while sending energy to one person to have
another person take over and shut the intended out?

This is what happened. I had had a very bad day at work and my husband tried to send me positive healing energy when all of a sudden our daughter who is 8 and 1/2 months pregnant just stepped into my space. Thinking it would be wrong to close her out he continued to send energy to her and her unborn child. How could that happen when he wasn't even thinking about her?

Confused ~ Cachet

CDachet,

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When you say she stepped into your space _ do you mean physically or astreally?

- and who is to say that he was not thinking about her??

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- we have all sorts of "mentals" going on all the time - half the time we are only dimly aware of many of them

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- of course some would say that "the energy" went wejhre it was needed the most" -

- other's would say it went where the Intent and Mindfulness was directed.

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- my stand tends to be with the latter.

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Hope this helps,

reiki all around,

all blessings,

firekeeper

Hello Firekeeper,

Thank you for your insight.

According to my husband as he concentrated on me in his meditative state, our daughter appeared mentally to him instead. He felt her discomfort of being so very pregnant and two distinct energies from the baby. We wonder if she might be having twins but she says not. Let's just say a once close relationship between father and daughter is no longer and they rarely speak. She didn't even acknowledge him on Father's Day.

Blessings ~ Cachet

Cachet,

namaste,

I think he sent where there was the most need, where his intent is, as Firekeeper said. (Hi Firekeeper) I think it is especially lovely that he would send reiki to her, given that there must be some hurt feelings on both sides.
He sounds like a very caring person. It is almost certain that they both may miss the relationship that they once had, and are visiting one another on an astral level more than either are aware of. :o}

I have a question for you. Do you mind sharing the reiki energy with your daughter and (soon) grandchild? Did I pick up a bit of resentment in your post? Reiki energy is infinite...it is not limited by someone steping into your husband's meditation.

Take care,

Blessings,

Priestess

Cachet,

/*\ Namaste :-}}

If she "appeared to him" during his meditation, and she was not also meditating at the time, then in effect "he went to her" - so she was in his Mindfulness enough to become manifest that way at that time

- thus his Intents probably shifted whether he fully realized or not - and with it the reiki -

- some effort to heal their relationship perhaps -

- of course if she does not give permission for the reiki then his efforts will be only partially successful - the reiki will help him.

- hope this helps.

Reiki all around,

all blessings,

firekeeper

Hi Cachet,
I find your wording interesting. Are you saying your daughter stepped into your space or into your husband's, while he was sending healing to you?

If she stepped into yours, (given your second post,) is it possible you are not keeping your aura fully protected?

If she stepped into your husband's space, then perhaps the seperation between father and daughter is being prolonged by the ego? Sad but possible. If this is the case, I wonder whether her presence during his healing session is a subconscious (unconscious) plea for 'help' and whether there are any avenues they could both explore in the hope they can be reunited.

Perhaps it was the energy of your daughter's thoughts, that triggered the experience, and not your husband's?

LL&L jonjo

Hello Priestess,

Yes, Terry is a very loving caring person. He spent his entire life working hard to provide us with all the comforts one could possibly want. Our four daughters went to the best private schools, took vacations with us most kids only dream about and never really had to worry about anything. We were the ideal happy family. Then they got married! Need I say more. Their choices weren't exactly what we expected for them but we tried to accept them. (I guess you could say after years of loveingly tending a rose garden someone comes along and pours cement all around the roses.) Yes the hurt is very deep between them.

No I don't resent my daughter stepping in. Some way some how things have got to change before it is too late. Life
is so precious and we all take it for granted.

It is ashame but she also has a little girl who will be 3 yrs. old in October and we rarely see her because of this situation so we probably won't see our new grandchild either. I was excited that he could feel the baby's energy. Just wish I knew to buy pink or blue. Lol!

Have a good day.
Blessings ~ Gail

Hello Firekeeper,

Our daugher isn't into mediating or any new age beliefs.
As for helping my husband, I truly hope this is so and pray it to be.

Blessings ~ Cachet

Gail,

Buy white/yellow/green... they go with everything!

The "2" he felt during the meditation was obviously the older grandchild.

There is a reason for all our choices, remember. Your girls are living their karma, which may or may not reflect your choices.

Part of your lesson (and your husbands') may be in cutting some of your own cords that say you know what is best for your girls. You might, but they have to learn.

I sense a lot of pain on your part, as well. Perhaps forgiveness/reiki to the situation for all of you is the order of the day...?? You and you husband could do it together...??

Blessings,

Priestess

Hello Jonjo,

You have an interesting point. Neither one of them are
happy about this situation. It is her husband that caused the problem but then again it was she who turned her back on her father. This has really torn our family apart.

Thank you for your insight.

Blessings ~ Cachet

Priestess,

You have no idea how much pain. He often jokes about how we should have just bought 4 gold fish. Lol!

You are right about letting go of them. But when you see
a car headed right for a cement wall it is difficult. Why is it parents can see so clearly the outcome of things and kids just don't see at all?

Next lifetime we will get the goldfish. Lol!

Thank you for your words of wisdom. I never even gave it a thought about my grandaughter's energy being there. Believe me, she is like the energizer rabbit. Lol!

Blessings ~ Gail

Hi!

This is my opinion from the kinesiology I have learnt. We can have energy attachments to other people without knowing. These include surrogracies, cordings and hookins. When we have these than healing that we are having can go to the other person we are connected to rather than the person who is intended for. As a matter of course I check for these (using kinesiology)before I start. Checking you with self testing I am getting hook ins. If you get into a meditative state and ask your guides to show them to you, you will be able to see them (possibly). Most of my clients can't but people who are developed in energy systems sometimes can. You can then ask to be shown the best way to remove them, then the best way to heal them, and the best way to access extra protection. If you are having problems please email and we can chat on the phone or over the net, and I can take you through them.

Also I strongly recommend Phyliss Krystal's Cutting the Ties that Bind. I have a posting here that mentions it. It works for both people involved even though the second person may not be aware of what you are doing. It may be ideal for the difficulties you are having with your daughters and their husbands.

Love Melinda

Namaste Cachet

It is such an emotionally hurtful situation, but such a common one too. A case of divided loyalties. When a child marries be it daughter or son, they then owe loyalty to their new partnership which can create just such a fractious situation. Perhaps the fact that your hubby picked up her her energy mean's that she is sending out a silent plea for reconcilliation. (Pride is such a mug, isn't it?:( )
Mmaybe when the child(ren) is born there will be an opening for you all?

I do hope things work out, as I feel this experience goeos deeper than may it may seem at first glance.

LL&L jonjo

Hello Jonjo,

Yes this is a very hurtful situation and you are so right about it going deep. I don't think the birth of the new
baby will change anything. It didn't when the first one
came along. It seemed to only makes things worse. I have
given up hope of it ever being resolved.

Blessings ~ Cachet

Dear Cachet,

Just want you to know you are in my thoughts and will send reiki to the situation if yu would like that?
L&L jonjo

Thank you Jonjo I would like that. You are very kind.

Blessings ~ Cachet

The only way this can happen, is if the person sending the energy is sidetracked by the second receiver and forgets to send to the first person. You send soul to soul, not in a direct, physical path. If you think of distance healing, you will realise that obstacles have no effect on the healing path.

Hi! Surfwood,

What you say is true. But how did our daughter intervene?
During meditation you are I assume concentrating on sending energy to one particular individual. He was not prepared for the overwelming presence of our daughter entering into his meditation. Not to shut her out, he continued sending healing energy thinking we would both benefit. However, I did not. He is just completely baffled how that happened.

Blessings ~ Cachet

Namaste, Cachet

A question: how do you know that you did not benefit from the healing which your husband sent? Is it always clear to us how the healing is working within us?

I notice that you tend to use the word "cement" when you describe the problem in your family. This strikes me as significant. You clearly want things to change, yet you seem convinced that they cannot change. Perhaps you are unintentionally blocking the situation by not believing in a resolution. You may be unconsciously blocking the reiki which is trying to help you. Try visualising the cement dissolving into something more positive.

You know, we go through so many life cycles in our long progress towards true enlightenment. Some people believe our children have been our parents and will be so again. Try doing some past-life therapy. The problem may lie hidden there.

You speak of buying goldfish for yourselves. Does this not perhaps reveal something also? Forgive me, but do you see yourselves as central?

You have my sympathy for your problem. A child growing up is very much like a bereavement. The little girl who was yours, and yours alone, is gone forever. You depended on that reason for living. Your husband clearly found in that his whole purpose. It is very hard for a father to let go of a daughter. There is an innevitable element of jealousy hidden away deep down. He has to let go of the child he loved so much, or he will not be healed.

Blessings,

firebird