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Greetings,
I had a strange, humorous yet disconcerting situation that occurred a while ago. I went to a seminar with 2 other women and we decided to stay in a room together and while in the room, one of the women looked at me angrily and said "where's my snacks?" I said I didn't know and then she said, "well their gone!" and just seemed really annoyed about it and had an attitude the entire time.
I later told the other woman, who was there but didn't say a word when I was being accused, how the woman had alot of nerve and she admitted that she was the one who ate the snacks and for me to quit complaining about it!
I recently was invited to an event by the women who ate the snacks and she mentioned that the other woman was invited and we could sit at the same table soo...I was wondering if I ought to mention to her at the table if she ever told the other woman that she ate her snacks. Wouldn't that be funny or am I just deranged. Or I can decline the invite as I hate to be seen as someone who would steal someone's snacks out of their luggage. Life is funny in a goofy sort of way.
Peace
Prosperity

What an interesting situation! The thief (let's not mince words), has not taken responsibility for her actions, neither did her friend accept the possibility that as there were 2 others with access to her luggage that it might have been either of you! I would be brave/stupid enough (depending on your perception), to put the cat amongst the pigeons, but I would be very gentle in how I chose to do it, and I wouldn't do it in a room full of other people so as to create a situation of humiliation.

I will be very interested to hear how you handle this one!

Suzibeth

Prosperity,

I'm with Suzibeth only I would go it one further, I would not share a room with them or likely sit at their table. One of them is a liar and a thief. (she basically was a liar when she didn't admit to the other woman that she took the food especially if the accusation took place in front of her) The other? Well if she thinks you took her stuff she is not going to be pleasant until she realizes that it wasn't you (maybe not even then because however it comes about she will have egg on her face and personally I don't like the whole jumping to conclusions bit)

You could let it go or you could find a way to bring it up that wouldn't cause public embarrassment but either way the relationship with either of these women isn't going to be a comfortable one so why inflict it on yourself by staying in a room or sitting at the table with them. You can be cordial, even pleasant and friendly but not accept invitations from them to join them either in the room or the table.

My opinions only.

Good luck

Walk in beauty,
Rebecca