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Hi all,

I've come to realize I have a strong fear of rejection. I have been through years of therapy, and nothing has happened. It prevents me from offering Reiki to people, going to AA meetings, etc. Today I was thinking of enlisting the help of the Spanish community here to learn Spanish. Just simply, I was going to ask the cashier the word for "coffee", and couldn't do.

Does anyone know of alternative methods to help with psychological problems, since traditonal therapy didn't help? Would appreciate any help I could get.

Namaste,
Roxy

Dearest Roxy,
*hugs you warmly, enveloping you in a pure white Light of healing*****

You are so beloved and valuable Roxy. Please know that your voice and light here are a great contribution to this community alone. Imagine what your voice and light are doing outside this community.
Know that spirit is Always, Always guiding you to the right places at the right time. Simply ask spirit to help you connect with those who would appreciate your wisdom and insights, and healings.
I would highly reccommend, "Dark side of the Light Chasers" by Debra Ford. As a recovering addict herself, she was very insightful as to the deeper meanings behind feelings of unworthiness.

Shine on little sister, I fill my heart with You Light.

All my love,
Jahnavi

Namaste Roxy:

I think that reiki is a wonderful way to cure. You may do self treatment and request distant healing requests. Since reiki is intention based, so you have to be clear about what you want o be healed especiall when putting forth your request for healing and when healing yourself.

I am confident that you will resolve your issue with feelings of rejection. I am sure that reiki will enable you to develop a sense of equilibrium, self confidence and that rally cool "blissed out" feeling that lot's of reiki tends to impart.

You can also learn Spanish online at .
Incedently, the Spanish word for coffe is "cafe" (with an accent over the 'e')

Best of luck to you !

AIM

Roxy,

/*\ Namaste :-}}

- I can offer distance ketsueki-kokan as an adjunct to any other work you are doing on these issues

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- perhaps you might consider doning the robes of the guinea pig for a round or two of this practice I have been developing

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- E-mail me if intereted in details

Reiki all around,

all blessings,

Firekeeper

Dear Roxy,
Realizing is the first step towards healing. It may take awhile, but keep working with the Reiki path. The thought crossed my mind, as they are wont to do, especially after a day of Reiki stuff, that maybe Bach flower remedies or some essential oils may boost some positive vibrations for you.
I remember clearly that I STRUGGLED with exactly the same issue , thought I licked it after Reiki One, it came back full force after Reiki II attunement, and did not really lie down quietly until after the Master Attunement. But, when I felt it disappear was during a very powerful meditation I did by myself on a retreat . It was replaced by JOY, or maybe so embraced by JOY that it surrendered to her. I guess it was just alot of work at self healing. Now, as for the essential oils, Sandalwood inspires trust and confidence. Oregano also boosts a feeling of security.As for the flower remedies, it is best for you to read a chart and see what best fits, but for example, I am looking at "Buttercup"(from FES) The positive quality of this essence is "radiant inner light, unattached to outer recognition or fame" The pattern of imbalance it addresses is "feelings of low self worth, inability to acknowledge or experience one's inner light and uniqueness". Just an example. Evening primrose works on feelings of rejection, awareness and healing of early painful emotions absorbed from mother. It is all very interesting. I would use any of these along with positive affirmations. I have also had instant release of old "stuff" with zero balancing... I have a friend who is very good with this.
Blessings!
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