Namaste Bhavani,
Know that you are loved and are very beautiful, just as you are. Being shy is a trait which is not negative. It indicates you are very sensitive, and no doubt a very compassionate person. Be true to yourself and this itself will draw to you those who are meant to be drawn to you as friends.
The wife of a friend is very shy and yet her husband is very outgoing.This is one trait he found very special about her--she has a very gentle Spirit, as it sounds you also have. She is beautiful just as she is , as that is the nature of her Spirit.
Be yourself , and as you come to realize, accept and experience the beauty of the love and light you are, and as others believe in you as yourself, you will feel more comfortable and supported.
If you can find Reiki Circles or other Spiritually focused to spend time with, it may be helpful for you , also
I know of a Reiki Master in India--he may be able to direct you to Reiki Circles or may meet with you , as he travels also--
omnimaster@rediffmail.com
(his website--
Your welcome to write anytime (earthsmist@yahoo.com)
Reiki blessings, love,
earthsmist
