The Hoboken Cafe 

So this is the deal… I’ve tried all the sites, the mingling with friends, clubbing/bar hopping… I’m beginning to think that there are no decent guys available out there. It seems to be impossible to meet a guy that doesn’t have either present notions or a hidden agenda. What makes it funny is, I notice guys complaining about not meeting the right girl or there being no “good” women out there too. So either we’ve become picky or we need a better communication system.

I’m 23, a grad student working for my masters in teaching. I live outside the city, but recently I’ve gotten an urge to start visiting the city and the many charms it has to offer. It would be nice to spend some quality time with someone that doesn’t have any hidden intentions.

So what am I looking for? A GOOD GUY; a guy that you can just hang out with any pressure. I would like to find someone that is charming, intelligent, and funny (typical). I don’t mean to be too specific, but age is a factor. I’m 23 and I would like someone that is in my age range (24-30). I need someone that isn’t out to play games, I’ve been on too many first and last dates to even explain this. I’m not looking for some casual hook up or some one night stand. I genuinely would like to get to know some one for the purpose of something substantial with time. I’m a sweetheart that wears my heart on my sleeve, and I’m way too hard on myself. Beauty is subjective, but I have a warm smile. I do have curves, I’m a full figured gal, so if you’re reading this and you don’t like curvy girls, then please stop now. You’re not going to like me. I’m just keeping it real. I’m fun and cheerful, but I’ve been knocked around pretty badly, and I don’t need anymore grief. Other than that, I really look forward to hearing from some nice guys.