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daphna

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married to aelroy,
into singing, rockclimbing, poetry, variety of food, subcultures


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Date Created: 7-11-2001
Last Modified: 1-1-2008
Last logged in: 5-9-2008

Details

Real Name: Daphna
Gender: Female
Religion: Atheist
Marital Status: Married
Country: United States of America
Local Area: Jersey City, New Jersey
Age: 38

Description

Caffeine doesn't affect me - ceiling effect

Links

www.exitzerorocks.com
The band I sing lead in

Questionaire

General questions
What do you do for a living?
Supervise teachers working with students with autism in an applied-behavior-analytic school, sometimes adjunct professor

What religions or philosophies of life do you believe in?
*About killing and being killed: don't kill if you don't have to, defend
yourself actively if you have to rather than get killed.
*Don't go through life expressing your inner asshole.

What are your favorite books?
When I was a kid my favorite book was The Wizard of Oz.

What type of books do you like to read?
Publications - Granta, Story, Glimmer Train, The Sun, The Writer
Short stories, novels fiction and non
Poetry - e.g., Anne Sexton, Michael Ondaatje
I like John Irving's sense of humor
A quote I like from "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy" by Douglas Adams is ".....when men were real men, women were real women and furry little creatures from Alpha Centauri were real furry little creatures from Alpha Centauri"
Not historical, political, romance novels

What type of movies or television shows do you watch?
Movies - Indie, foreign [most stuff at Angelica and Lincoln center], comedy, horror, animation festivals
Some movies I really like - The Big Lebowski, Being John Malkovich
[Mike says Amos and I like movies about gay cowboys eating pudding - he said that before Brokeback Mountain came out by the way...]
TV - Bravo, Comedy Central
Specific shows - The Simpsons, 6 feet under

What kind of music do you like?
variety - rock, grunge, alternative
specifics - The Beastie Boys, The Beatles, Sheryl Crow, Chris Cornell, Bob Dylan, Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young, Ednaswap, The Grateful Dead, Emerson, Lake and Palmer, Goldfrapp, Led Zepellin, Pearl Jam, Pink Floyd, The Pixies, Joni Mitchell, Soundgarden, Temple of the Dog
And - Planet drum, Planet soup, Pie, Hydrogen jukebox, depression era songs
Dancing to these songs - Jump around, Kiss, Love Shack,
I like to sing too, lead, backup, originals, covers, karaoke, accompanied by someone playing, a capella

What type of foods do you like to eat?
[Vegetarian=nothing that used to move or still does but eat dairy and eggs for 23 years]
Like - Indian, Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Malaysian, Vietnamese, Ethiopian, Italian, Greek, Turkish, Moroccan, French food
Don't like - Hungarian food
I typically prefer to go simple cheap/inexpensive places that have good food

Do you consider yourself to be more of a conservative or liberal person?
Liberal

What do you like to do for fun?
eat food from all over the globe, rockclimb, sing, watch movies, write poetry [ archive back issues 27, 36, 45, 46, 49, 51, 52, 56, 57, 80 click on poem title and Issue X under my name, also in Hudson Reporter - The New Jersey Turnpike Turns Me On, Chronogram - Why I still haven't called my brother; Big Pond Rumours - Hunting Season], go to poetry readings and read at them, attend a poetry workshop weekly, help organize events, go to fairs, find cool stuff in the garbage, laugh until I cry about very stupid things, go to funky stores, find out about people's specific little preferences and rituals, talk to strangers, I haven't watched birds in a while but used to and would like to again, reptiles

What are some of your interests?
That don't overlap with stuff written already?
*Wierd little facts like Jimi Hendrix used to open for The Monkees
*Funereal feasts
*The politics and rules of subcultures
*Cool-sounding words
*African masks
*alternative houses [ones made out of funky stuff, treehouses, RVs, etc.)

NOT:
*sports
*generalization-type discussions about men/women
*human/non-human differences leading to humans are da bomb and therefore
rule
*fuzzy things being passed off as therapies
*drinking to the point that you forget that you are hanging out with
people with no imagination (for me alcohol is a liquid not a passtime]
*ultra-beauty-fashion talk and doing

What achievements in your life are you most proud of?
Being born

Hoboken questions

If you live in Hoboken, how long have you been here?
Jersey City - almost 10 years [before that almost 6 in Weehawken]

If you live in Hoboken, why do you live here?
Jersey City - cheap rent [paying attention? notice I am not talking about Hoboken?], actually somewhere to park, had been because it was between our commutes that streched even further apart

What do you like about Hoboken?
Jersey City - close to the city [and I don't mean Jersey City], close to Mike [yes one and the same our fearless site creator - I was going to say "creator" but that's just a bit much, he is my age and did not make me]

Hoboken - Symposia community bookstore,

What do you dislike about Hoboken?
Jersey City - dog-and-not-only-dogs' shit on the pavements [sometimes under the quaint signs claiming there is a fine]

Hoboken - I stay the hell away from stuff I'm not into

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Upcoming Events Attending

Sat, May 17th. 4:00PMSpring Backyard BBQ Party

Past Events Attended

Wed, Apr 30th. 9:00PM(Host) Daphna's band Exit Zero finally performing in Hoboken
Sat, Jan 26th. 9:00PMWine and Cheese party
Mon, Dec 31st. 9:00PMNew Year's Eve Private House Party in Hoboken
Wed, Nov 21st. 6:00PMThanksgiving Eve Mixer & Birthday Celebration
Sat, Nov 17th. 8:00PMGame Night!
Sat, Oct 20th. 8:00PMWine and Cheese party
Sat, Mar 24th. 8:00PMChocolate Paradise Party
Sat, Feb 24th. 8:00PMAnniversary Of My Death Party
Sat, Nov 18th. 8:00PMGame Night / Birthday Party
Sun, Jul 16th. 7:00PMPirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest

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